The reasons why people have affairs are often very complex and varied, and can depend on personal circumstances, motivations, and individual beliefs. Some of the most common reasons why people might betray their partner include:
1. Emotional dissatisfaction: people may seek emotional intimacy or support outside of their current relationship if they feel unfulfilled or neglected by their partner. They may find someone who listens to them, understands them, and supports them in ways that their partner does not.
2. Sexual dissatisfaction: people may have affairs to fulfil unmet sexual needs or desires that are not being satisfied in their current relationship.
3. Boredom and / or novelty-seeking: some people may have affairs out of a desire for novelty or excitement. They may feel bored or unchallenged in their current relationship and seek out new experiences or partners.
4. Revenge or retaliation: in some cases, people may have affairs as a way of retaliating against a partner who they feel has wronged them in some way.
5. Psychological issues: some people may have affairs as a result of psychological issues such as low self-esteem, insecurity, or a need for validation or attention.
Having an affair can have significant and even extreme emotional and psychological consequences for both the person who has the affair and their partner. While break-up and divorce are possible options for couples who are struggling, some people may still choose to have affairs as a way of coping with and / or resolving their issues.
It's generally recommended that couples work through their problems in a more constructive and open manner, such as through individual or couples coaching / counselling, before considering divorce or (further) infidelity.
Possibly counselling is an option for you if you are having, or have had, and affair, or suspect your previous or current partner has.
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